As new parents, we mapped out a well charted course for our children’s upbringing. We were well read on the subject of childrearing, and were naïve enough to believe that our knowledge and nurturing would lead to a conflict-free parent/child dynamic. It was going to be easy, we were prepared – and we would show everyone how to be model parents. Ha!
Okay, you can stop laughing. As most of you know, nothing can truly prepare you for parenting – and as important as nurturing is, the undeniable variable in the equation is Nature! Children come to you pre-wired. As parents, you must understand how your child is genetically programmed and adjust your parenting accordingly. For instance, Son was a fearless thrill-seeker. No fence was too high, no water too deep. An unattended moment in the back yard could result with him scaling the fence to climb onto the roof – at four years old! Daughter, on the other hand, once stood outside - pitifully drenched by a sudden cloudburst – and would not cross our quiet cul-de-sac street alone until we waded through the puddles to hold her hand. Two kids. Same parents. Identical parenting philosophies – and exasperatingly different wiring! To say raising children is a challenge is an understatement. To those fortunate few with the enviable combination of childrearing expertise and “easy” kids, this point may be lost on you.
My 3-Word Wisdom: Parent with Patience. Your role as mother and father will test your will. Accept that fact and be willing to deal with the unexpected. Parenting is your biggest responsibility, and the adults your children become will be your reward for your perseverance - that, and grandchildren!
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| Paula, son's fiance, son, Hubby, Lucy and daughter. |
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